Yeay, It is my Happy Birthday :) !!!

As a grow one more year older, one more year of wisdom gets sprinkled on me...

One more year of happiness, one more year of family, love,friends, colors, laughter, celebration. Lucky me born in the beautiful world, with family to support me, give me education, give me abilities to type on this tech gadget and earn my bread with honey and jam.

Yes it is my HAPPY BIRTHDAY :) ...

I am so happy... when I must have been born, I am sure I was crying and moreover my mother was expecting a boy not me :) but then it was me... still I myself is a celebration.

I don't think so my parents had repents for it later, if it is me.

You know na it is lovely me :) yes I am big time bragger of my good & wrong doings.So I have learned my lesson as every year...

Few things, I have learned and honestly really hard way...

Never ever mix personal life with professional life, never let friends, family, life get to you when it is about work, finish it and then get to them they won't go anyway.

Try (Try!!) not to talk about your disliking about other people in front of people ( as there will be always something which you won't like we are always humans) BUT it will always come back to you and always with a different perspective not as you thought or your intentions were (Also if they see things differently, that doesn't mean they are wrong).

Start taking things little lightly, it is ok happens, will happen more.

You do things for people, as you choose to do so and it makes you more happy never say you did it.

Don't run after people, do things in limits, once you start doing people start taking you for granted and start believing this is way you are, not you are taking an extra mile.

Don't shout to prove your point, listen to what they have to say sometimes they say things which you cann't even imagine.

Yeay, it is my birthday... :) so I am enjoying every bit of it.

Will be happy and grateful to god, for getting a chance to wear lovely dresses, lovely clothes,all the love that I am fortunate enough people have for me, and because where I am today.

How lucky I can be I have you today... Thanks for everything.

Now!!!!

My friend got a corvette, I got a racing bike, Will run 30K this sunday,As of now trying to work while having fun.
Do whatever, you always wanted to do as there will never be a tomorrow and you will always have some more responsibilities and today will always be busier than yesterday…
You will always remember things, which you couldn’t do, rather those of what you could.

Life will always have its checklist so will you, elderly says there is always a right time for everything, they are not wrong but neither are you.
Let that right time be now.
Do things which you CAN now or keep adding to the wish list.If you really have that desire for that wish, it will nag you and you will keep coming back to that checklist.

Poeple who says, they are realistic and don't expects too much out of life, then definitely either they are not playing the game well or actually are real saints to be so content of whatever they have.
Quoting this, I always pull my mothers leg she didn't let me go for classical dance classes, or my dad didn't let me go for swimming classes as a child, But that doesn't mean I would not learn swimming or dance. If I couldn't learn swimming or dance, it is me who couldn't give myself a chance not them.

Happy List!!!!

I just realised today after looking at my big To-do list, afcourse it hardly depresses me now, I just keep giving each a shot or simply ignore them :), while going through the dates and time.

August is the Happiness Month :) according to secret society of happy people, 8th August is the happy day... :) and this is the month to stay happy, no matter what.

Not that other months you don't have reason to be happy about, but this one is special too, so recognize and express happiness probably you make someone more happy.

Happiness just doesn't come just like that, it is an art you pursue and is a continuous process.

At times you are so lazy to even pursue it and you keep yourself in the rut and kind of too lazy to get out of it and you feel somethings are not right and you are not happy.

You need to work towards to be happy and then it becomes a habit, it is great to have a habit of being happy.

For example you won't know how happy you would feel

Untill you go to park, with ducks or flowing water.

Gift someone something small, unless you see his expression.

Unless you wear that something which make you feel really happy.

Complete the work assigned at office, unless you focus to complete it.

Things that give me happiness is anything but everything and my list is endless.

I am sure they are different for you.

Try one today, write an email to old best friend, I know you miss her so much ( it will be one happy moment).

Tell your sister/brother or your best friend I love you... :) I can give you my words, she will smile back at you and may say I hope are you ok... (In my case I get an answer I love you too :) )

Go for a walk, or run ( For me running give me immense happiness and ROI - return of investment is way too much )

If not today but plan a dinner with friends, you don't need to go out for that just sit at anyone home,cook together and have food together or watch some movie together and can be any timepass movie (I do that very often last movie I remember I saw it with my best friend and we both were dancing on the couch on any music number).

Focus on your assigned work and try to finish it. ( The hardship and end result of it, is the most happy moment for anyone).

Rest is you to explore whatever it is , come out of the rut and stay happieeee....

If you ever want to comment on this , please do mention what makes you happy.

So have a Happy Happy Month :)