Monday, October 27, 2008

HHHHaaappppyyyyyyyy....

I was wondering we all in this world is seeking happiness, so thoughts of what would give someone that happiness. Happiness is so vague, generic term.
When God must be creating this emotion he must be having a good brainstorming session and then he couldn't come to some conclusion and he didn't have any choice but left is on the species itself.

For me what would happiness defines...
Shopping (naa...), dressing up, being with the family, reading a nice excerpt, watching a nice movie, having good time with friends, eating sumptuous food, spending time or playing with kids, babies, flowing water, beach, mountains,music,dance, playing, getting a nice well placed job,working really hard then finally getting what you were working for,birthday... actually list is endless.
There are so many choices then why people cann't find one among so many choices.
There are still unhappy, pain, miseries are part of them if not that to extreme, still that spark that excitement is missing and every day a new is missing we dont get up with something we look forward to, or with a smile on our face when we are out to walk.
These choices lies within us when even god left it on us, I think that is why human ages ago made festivals like
Halloween, Deepawali, Guru Purav and many more.
Deepawali, halloween , or gurupurav to increase the list count to be happy about, not that playing with family and kids or flowing water not at par with these.
These festivals are an effort to keep us on common consensus to be happy together and spread it all around by lighting diya, or may be dressing up or eating together and sharing that special time.

So may this time of festivities brings you lot of happiness to share with friends and family.
I wish and pray on these festivals, there are smiles and joys in your life.... and you spread the radiance of lights and happiness among all those around you...
Wishing you all HHHAAPPPPYYY Times Ahead!!!

Monday, October 13, 2008

Get Free!!!

One of the good things I have read today, and will add more to it...

When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free."

These days working out alot and spending money as always but my wedding website is keeping me busy most of the times when I am on my laptop and realised this social networking sites like orkut and others are killing me too making me almost useless... once I am done with that.
I am going to come back to this one for sure, as I have so many thoughts nagging on the same....

So
To be Continued...

PS:
"The stupid neither forget and forgive, Naive forgive and forgets but wise forgives but don't forget”

Wednesday, October 08, 2008

Say Cheese!!!

One day I was wondering
No matter how our mood is and what we are doing we manage to smile right when the camera is in front of you... :)
Whether you would be able to see that picture again or not.

I belong to the lot who barely manage to smile it just stops at a point when I am posing or I know someone is taking my photo and I also know there are some hard memories behind that, but anyways those memories doesn't take my obsession with pictures I want as many pictures to be taken and I really want me in those too :).
Here I have an anecdote to remember which I read/saw long time back dont even remember when or how, A cute little girl was following her dad and the light was striking everytime she was stopping right at that moment and smiling back.
When the dad asked "Honey lets go fast it is about to rain and we really need to rush what is making you stop again and again".
She replied " OH really dad! I thought god is taking my picture"...

So here I am, I know Mr. God keep watching me up there with his adventures with a smile and with his camera on taking my pictures afcourse without fail I want to be present in all of those.
Still I am unable to smile to fullest in those.

So Say Cheesseee!!!! someone is capturing you up there.

Sunday, October 05, 2008

Favor, Thank you ,Sorry

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This blog is one of the arbit one I wrote and this one goes for a friend I know and had a good time with some time back. She asked me a "favor" and the favor was to go through the site which I actually loved after looking at it (IF IT WAS FAVOR AT ALL) http://www.pqdvd.com/talkingphoto/blogit.html and I came to know something very interesting... so "thank you" for sharing it with me to see the demo go to website and "sorry" if this was not supposed to be put this way and sorry if this blog write up didnt have any meaning for its readers.
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I always wonder about few words and there magic and I have a strange connection with these three i.e. Favor, Thank you, Sorry...

If a stranger walk an extra mile. I remember those days when I used to travel with heavy suitcase across the corners of the country and when I was moving out someone whom I really donn't know (ONLY BEFORE THAT) helping me out with the luggage and to pull those a favor comes into play. but if my friend do something for me how can it be a favor she got my friendship commitment which is of so many joys together in return or if a known friend/person asked me to do something, I came to know something new or may be very interesting afcourse it is me who will decide whether I would like to do that but it doesnt strike if it would be considered a favor.

Next word that strike the bell for me is "Thank you", This one is one of the lovely words I know and among my list of favorites I like this word what so ever and would like to use as often as I can. I love to do so even with my friends, family, known whom so ever and trust me you would only know when you would start using how a simple thank you makes so much difference both in personal and professional worlds. Thanks for making it a special one to all the friends and be part of all the fun and joys you have given me, memories will always be forever.

The other one is "Sorry", for me I believe this word is highly misused. Most of the time it doesnt hurt to say words so we try to use whatever possible . Anyways out of all but sorry would be among the few I cherish saying but to be honest if I want to say this one I would say it with all my heart and make sure it makes a difference for me and to the person whom I am saying ( I would suggest the same on the whole too) Sorry , and it should be like wont repeat it again or atleast try to and I really mean it.