Sunday, October 05, 2008

Favor, Thank you ,Sorry

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This blog is one of the arbit one I wrote and this one goes for a friend I know and had a good time with some time back. She asked me a "favor" and the favor was to go through the site which I actually loved after looking at it (IF IT WAS FAVOR AT ALL) http://www.pqdvd.com/talkingphoto/blogit.html and I came to know something very interesting... so "thank you" for sharing it with me to see the demo go to website and "sorry" if this was not supposed to be put this way and sorry if this blog write up didnt have any meaning for its readers.
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I always wonder about few words and there magic and I have a strange connection with these three i.e. Favor, Thank you, Sorry...

If a stranger walk an extra mile. I remember those days when I used to travel with heavy suitcase across the corners of the country and when I was moving out someone whom I really donn't know (ONLY BEFORE THAT) helping me out with the luggage and to pull those a favor comes into play. but if my friend do something for me how can it be a favor she got my friendship commitment which is of so many joys together in return or if a known friend/person asked me to do something, I came to know something new or may be very interesting afcourse it is me who will decide whether I would like to do that but it doesnt strike if it would be considered a favor.

Next word that strike the bell for me is "Thank you", This one is one of the lovely words I know and among my list of favorites I like this word what so ever and would like to use as often as I can. I love to do so even with my friends, family, known whom so ever and trust me you would only know when you would start using how a simple thank you makes so much difference both in personal and professional worlds. Thanks for making it a special one to all the friends and be part of all the fun and joys you have given me, memories will always be forever.

The other one is "Sorry", for me I believe this word is highly misused. Most of the time it doesnt hurt to say words so we try to use whatever possible . Anyways out of all but sorry would be among the few I cherish saying but to be honest if I want to say this one I would say it with all my heart and make sure it makes a difference for me and to the person whom I am saying ( I would suggest the same on the whole too) Sorry , and it should be like wont repeat it again or atleast try to and I really mean it.

2 comments:

Astvansh said...

:-)

After reading your blog, I reminisce an incident. It was way back in 2004, when I was single (read: young). I lived at my first-floor flat. On a bridght Saturday morning of May, I was returning from my unusual morning brisk walk when I saw a couple of pretty gals shifting in my block. A couple of glances and I could make out that they were having a tough time shifting the stuff to 4th floor.

I was quick to seize the opportunity and offered help to one of the ladies. In response to my "May I help you *please*?", she looked at her mate, and then took a few seconds before ungracefully turning down the would-be-neighbor's request :-). Maybe it was my oh-so-manly stubble, or my half-dressed malnutritioned body.

The point I am making is that at times, the help from strangers comes as a shock to people. I guess people these days do not expect anyone to help anyone else unless there is an obvious motive :-).

itni shakti hamein dena, daata,
man ka vishwaas kamzor ho na,
ham chalein nek raste pe,
ham se, bhool kar bhi, koi bhool ho na ||

Rti said...

he he he this one was funny, I believe these days girls are really dumb... they dont understand normally not all people helping them may or may not hitting on them.
Still it was they who were at lose first by not getting any help and then missing the gossip to talk on the coffee table.