A smiling beautiful face a special person comes right in front of me. This also depicts to me how a simple smile can change the beauty of any normal countenance. No this person is not my mother.
My mother would always have a problem if I slept 1 hour more than I should or I have not been helping her in the household. Else I normally hear her talking to my siblings about the daily problems as if our world is full of problems and every day is a long day.
I am talking about a person who always meet me with a greeting smile and say ... "Didi chai bana do ya didi uth jao varna biwi ji datengi ab". I have rarely seen a person so happy then her.
I am 26 turning 27 soon, my face loooks dull and I smile occasionally though I have a god who always smiles on me and I know is sitting up there for me. He has given me good education, and just too caring and protective family, above all great infact GREATEST set of friends one can have and a very protective, adorable life partner. I have got a chance to work in world first companies... who are pioneers or rulers in their own fields... here I am not talking about the good things... :) i have. I still have dark eyes, my face always look very dull and when I smile I think I m doing a great favor on me, if i have pictures with a smile i would say it is a great picture of me, I feel jealous of the people for small small things they have.
I feel I am not happy as I just have too many problems...If I start writing for what I am, I am sure there is no end to my or infact most of our thanklessness for whatever god has given to us.
I am talking about a lady who is younger than me may be 22 years, and has three daughters.
I am talking here of "Geeta" her day starts early morning at 4:00 AM and she doesn't gets weekends off!!!!! and if she takes off, so many people will ask for her wellness not at all because she is good human or she should be fine. They want that there house doesn't remain messy as she won't be able to take care of it on those days when she is not able to make it.
I am talking here of "Geeta" her day starts early morning at 4:00 AM and she doesn't gets weekends off!!!!! and if she takes off, so many people will ask for her wellness not at all because she is good human or she should be fine. They want that there house doesn't remain messy as she won't be able to take care of it on those days when she is not able to make it.
She wakes up her kids, she would make breakfast and lunch for them as she won't be back before the day is over.Then she starts her daily chores like going from one great family having a grand house and they want it prim and proper.
She will come to my place and she will be eager to talk to me, as i am the one who would listen to her stories, about her kids.I asked who is her daughters in those, she told me whoever is the best in the lot is her daughter. She would tell me what sarees she likes to wear, and what kind of earring she would wear, and her husband is world greatest husband. When me and my mother would fight she would advice me to keep things with myself as this is family matter, I shouldn't be discussing it with my friends. As she also knows that makes my mother more mad.Her face is always adorn with a wide smile and from her perspective her life seems perfect... :)
She will come to my place and she will be eager to talk to me, as i am the one who would listen to her stories, about her kids.I asked who is her daughters in those, she told me whoever is the best in the lot is her daughter. She would tell me what sarees she likes to wear, and what kind of earring she would wear, and her husband is world greatest husband. When me and my mother would fight she would advice me to keep things with myself as this is family matter, I shouldn't be discussing it with my friends. As she also knows that makes my mother more mad.Her face is always adorn with a wide smile and from her perspective her life seems perfect... :)
She is a housemaid, who works at my house and 4 other houses to make her living and have food for her kids and for her greatest husband.She smiles on almost everything even if work was more, she is too lean and I juggle to get lean while paying huge bills in the gym.
She comes early in the morning to every house as well in the evening to clean the dishes and does the same for other houses too.
She is one real happy soul on this huge planet earth.
I adore her for this, and I learn every bit of it from her. I came to know that the true way to render ourselves happy is to love our work and find in it our pleasure.
I adore her for this, and I learn every bit of it from her. I came to know that the true way to render ourselves happy is to love our work and find in it our pleasure.
Although this doesn't makes me give up on my whims and luxuries, I still want to drive the best and talk on the phone which is the best and still want to throw my tantrums on those who entertain it. The only thing I have stopped doing is complaining, cribbing and I am grateful to him for everything he has bestowed upon me, as Geeta is.... :) .
As some one rightly said "We all live with the objective of being happy; our lives are all different and yet the same".
2 comments:
true.. I deeply appreciate all those who live seemingly monotonous lives compared to my own and yet are happy and spread happiness! Irrespective of what our life is like, we have the power to stay happy and keep others happy.. was a nice read, hope to see more from you in the future :)
That you have stopped cribbing and complaining is a good sign! you are already on your way to being happy :-) Please refrain from writing sad things about yourself in future .. and that will be the next step to being happy :-) I'm not picking on you, most of us are like this. So this is for all of us :-) (Dont mind the smilies galore, your blog was the culprit.. he he)..
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