Saturday, January 10, 2009

Colors!! (A Friend and Social Circle)

There always be a sometime when you will do something new in life.
So, this is kind of new to me and I am not sure if I am dealing with it right.

Whatever I do I have always done that with some set of friends... in every chapter of life.
Now I am getting settled into another chapter of life realized there is another thing or I am living something called social circle. I am sure everyone must have faced this at one point of time or will face soon...
ok here are the differences b/w the two, friends and social circle.
Friend you can call any hour or go to friend's place anytime.
You dont need to formally invite a friend. you need to ask a friend not request.
There is no term help when it is with friend.
You don't need any formal preparations to meet a friend but you do look forward and get excited about meeting a friend.
You meet a friend, you have a dinner ( and it is not the food no it is not ) and then you have unending stories, guffaws and may be bitching.
With friends it is not the movie which is the core focus, it is with whom you are watching.
When they are together every time is celebration and if there is one, it is with them you would want to celebrate.

Social circle, you invite them, you call before you go to their place.
you look for free spots to meet them, you get or give tentative plans.
when you meet you have dinners and then play cards or may be gossip about others.
you request for favors if you need one and find ways to return else you wouldn't do it for them anyways.
you need proper planning to organize a meeting with them and plan what would you do when you are together.
you plan a movie together you need to make sure all the parties have good reason to watch it.

I have had the best part of the first paragraph i.e friends in my life.
You see man is greedy I still look forward to have some more of it... but that friends are still unknown.
Regarding that social circle, I am trying to enjoy every bit of it or may be we find a friend in that too ... What Say?...

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