It is past 1:00 am
and all the thoughts are rushing
Things haven't gone
as planned as they should and I am not
the same person as I was as I woke up in
the morning I had couple of panic attacks, didn’t finish all my list of To DO
items and didn’t come upto my
expectation or still didn’t reach my target weight or dimension or didn’t get any kudos of hardwork, I have
been putting at work but I am happie, you don't need to be successful,
perfect to be happie.
What does it take to
be happie, anyone in this world the one who has no roof over his head and is going through toughest times still be happie but the one who is driving a porche might not be , the list
can be endless and I will keep adding to
My Happie List.
Happie List
- Don't hold a grudge against anyone, remember holding a grudge wouldn't impact the most other than you learn to let go
- Always remember there is always so much you can do but do it with your honest heart and do it for you, someone very dear said me you are very selfish , if thinking about yourself "NOT" at the cost of others is selfish be it atleast one person sure is happy also if you are taking an extra mile for someone again you are doing it for yourself.
- Learn to remind yourself what has happened has happened you can't change that , what you can change is what is going to come, so try to work on that rather keep thinking of what happened. It also comes with big warning that you can change only those things in future which are in your control
- Try to have good support system every person has unique place & importance in your life, you are not bound to stay with one and only one , every person is there for a reason in your life, value and respect each and every relationship or friendship and family and don't take them for granted do small things to make big memories.
- Always pursue your passions no matter I didn’t have my parents , family support pursuing my passions that doesn't mean I don't love them I love them to death but I pursued my passion even if it needed sneaking out of my comfort zone or telling all possible lies :) but indeed it made me happie in the end.
- Try to stay away from drama from people who judge and try to keep it simple , I usually get very nervous when I am judged so still working on it…
- BTW, one doesn't know what will make one happie unless you try it I very proudly say I am very ignorant, ignorance is bliss at times :) so be it …
- Sometimes big memories are messy ones learn to laugh at those and always think as long it is replaceable and you can afford to get it fixed be grateful of it and laugh at it , thing happen and will happen just don't invite trouble make sure you don't repeat same mistake again :)
- Being an extrovert doesn't mean you don't spend time with yourself, learn to enjoy your company, I love to drive to parties alone and at times have my lunch alone spending some time with myself is my happie time :)
- Make the best out of what you have rather not yearn for what you don't have believe it or not real happiness comes from things which has life "fresh air, floral, fauna and creations and man is best well creation you can encounter EVER!!!
Make the best out of
those you have , scream and shout and
let it out and be HAPPIEEEEEEEEE !!!!
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